Since moving here, I’ve had more time with my own thoughts than I’d ever had in London; I’m now undistracted by a full calendar, away from familiar surroundings, and on my own far more. As a result, I’ve unexpectedly done a lot of self-reflection. A friend said to me when I first got here: “living abroad isn’t always about having the best time ever, but rather having an incredible learning experience.” He was right!
Now that Covid restrictions are easing here in Australia, here are my top 5 spots for self-reflection; after all, gotta make the most of being abroad with some sightseeing in between the soul searching!
Royal Botanical Gardens, CBD
It is here, back in 2018, that I first thought to myself “I could live in this city.” The swaying palms tower above and the colours of the plants are vibrant; wandering around the gardens is such a good way to reset your mind, as you soak up the gorgeous nature. What’s more, as you take the north-west exit from the gardens (towards the water), and follow the path around, the famous Sydney Opera House appears. When I get those “why did I move here, again?” feelings, this is where I go, and within an instant, I remember.
Lavender Bay, Lower North Shore
Just across from the CBD, over the Sydney Harbour Bridge, lies Lavender Bay. In this peaceful spot, you can sit and admire the boats on the harbour, as well as drink in a magnificent view of the Sydney Harbour Bridge. I sat there one afternoon for hours, happy as Larry, and was even inspired to do a little sketch (art is evidently not my strong point…) If you’ve got time, make a walk of it: get a bus across the bridge, stroll down to Wendy’s Secret Garden, then into Lavender Bay, before passing Luna Park, and finally crossing the aforementioned Harbour Bridge by foot, admiring stunning views of the harbour and Opera House below.
Coogee to Bondi // Manly to the Spit coastal walks
Talking of pretty walks, the six-kilometre Coogee to Bondi coastal walk is a stunning stretch for self-reflection, as is the 10-kilometre Manly to the Spit - and you can start the latter journey with a gorgeous ferry ride. From dramatic cliffs to secluded bays (plus a creepy but weirdly charming graveyard on Bondi-Coogee, and burned bushland on Manly - the Spit), there’s plenty to see as you mull over your thoughts and get that step count up. There are also plenty of spots to sit and stare out to sea. While Coogee and the famous Bondi beaches are often packed, there are less crowded beaches in between both walks, so come off the walking route and dip your toes in the water along the way.
Cremorne Point, Lower North Shore
An easy ferry ride from Circular Quay (which I only learned on my way back, after an hour’s bus + walk… whoops), you’ll find Cremorne Point. This 3km loop will take you past a smattering of gorgeous ‘Barbie house’ homes that boast spectacular views of the water and yachts bobbing along - you’ll be reflecting on how much you want to live there, that’s for sure. When you get to the tip (so you’re facing the city), take a left and walk down the little path: you’ll find the perfect spot for self-reflection. There’s a small rock on which you can sit and look over the water at the city, Opera House and Harbour Bridge, watching the boats zoom in and out, and the cars crawl along behind the Opera House like little bugs.
Pittwater, Northern Beaches
Now, this one is an hour north of Sydney, and most easily reached by car. On one side, you have Palm Beach aka Summer Bay, home of the popular soap, Home and Away, while on the other, you’ll find calmer waters with a horizon that wouldn’t look out of place in the likes of Switzerland, New Zealand, or even Ha Long Bay. you’ll find calmer this tourist town is a surprisingly serene spot for a little self-reflection. After some quiet time here, make sure you stop for some fish and chips Summer Bay side, then follow the tourists upwards, towards the lighthouse, for a breathtaking view of the two beaches.
Blue Mountains National Park, NSW
Okay, so this one isn’t technically Sydney, but it is within easy reach. An hour west of the city, the verdant Blue Mountains National Park is made up of a selection of residential towns, spectacular lookouts, waterfalls, and tourist attractions, like the Three Sisters, Echo Point and Scenic Skyway. For most of lockdown, I was lucky enough to be welcomed into the family home of a dear friend of mine who lives in the Blue Mountains, so I was able to benefit from quieter, hidden lookouts (usually just us there) and being immersed in Aussie birdlife. Stepping away from the bright lights of the city proved very cathartic.
Been to Sydney? What are your favourite spots to self reflect and clear your mind?